Bedtime with Clara

A Catholic bedtime routine for kids, by age

A good bedtime routine for young children takes 20 to 30 minutes and follows the same steps every night: bath, pajamas and teeth, a story, a short prayer, then lights out. The prayer grows with your child, from a one-line thank-you at two to a decade of the Rosary at six.

A bedtime routine for a 2-year-old

Sleep they need: 11 to 14 hours a day, including naps · About 20 minutes

The routine

  1. Bath or a warm wash
  2. Pajamas and teeth
  3. One short picture story
  4. Sign of the Cross, with your hand guiding theirs
  5. A one-line prayer and a goodnight song

A bedtime routine for a 3-year-old

Sleep they need: 10 to 13 hours a day, including naps · About 25 minutes

The routine

  1. Bath, pajamas and teeth
  2. Two choices: which pajamas, which story
  3. A story read aloud
  4. Three Hail Marys: you say the first half, they answer
  5. The Guardian Angel prayer, lights out

A bedtime routine for a 4-year-old

Sleep they need: 10 to 13 hours a day, including naps · About 25 minutes

The routine

  1. Tidy one thing together, then bath and teeth
  2. A saint or Bible story
  3. One thing you’re thankful for today
  4. Three Hail Marys and the Guardian Angel prayer
  5. A blessing on the forehead and lights out

A bedtime routine for a 5-year-old

Sleep they need: 10 to 13 hours a day · About 30 minutes

The routine

  1. Bath, pajamas and teeth on their own, with you nearby
  2. A longer story, and a question about it
  3. A short talk: the best and hardest part of the day
  4. Three Hail Marys, Our Father or Glory Be
  5. The Guardian Angel prayer, a blessing, lights out

A bedtime routine for ages 6 to 8

Sleep they need: 9 to 12 hours a day · About 30 minutes

The routine

  1. Get ready for bed on their own
  2. A chapter of a story, or a saint’s life
  3. Talk about the day
  4. A decade of the Rosary together
  5. A blessing and lights out

Sleep hours: American Academy of Sleep Medicine consensus (2016), endorsed by the American Academy of Pediatrics.

Questions parents ask

How long should a bedtime routine be?

About 20 to 30 minutes, with the same steps in the same order every night. What matters most is that it’s calm and predictable, not how long it is.

How much sleep does my child need?

The American Academy of Sleep Medicine, with the American Academy of Pediatrics, recommends 11 to 14 hours a day for ages 1 to 2, 10 to 13 hours for ages 3 to 5, and 9 to 12 hours for ages 6 to 12, counting naps.

Where does prayer fit in?

At the end, after the story and before the light goes out. It becomes the signal that the day is over, and children fall asleep with God as their last thought.